Human Relations always become complicated.

There is no more unpleasant behavior than pining a label on a person. Nobody can select their own favorite one by themselves. and We can't cast off a social role which such a label made to ourselves.
So everybody often wants to deconstruct a social relationship.I assume
I have gone through strange racial trouble in family. It was caused by the racial labels on me. I assume others (Japanese or German,possibly British female)pined complicated labels on me,and they were characterized by race and sexuality.