How does a person become an adult?

Nowadays, to use a word"Adult" needs to be careful. It means almost "things which law forbids a child ".I wonder when it became so.
Formally It meant having an career and preparing for marriage. but now nobody seems to use it as  such meaning. I come not to hear "You are a grown-up,aren't you".Nobody can't know What is to be an adult.
 well,I try to define it as follows.
An adult wash his hands after using bathroom.
An adult don't pick up magazines  remained on the road.
 An adult don't read a comic book.
An adult mustn't say to a bride "Congratulations !"at the wedding party.
An adult woman mustn't be a dog in the manger to more pretty young girl than herself.
An adult blogger posts comments after he read the blog exactly. 
An adult mustn't take it on others when his favorite baseball team lose a game.
An adult subordinate can put up with a boring preaching of his boss.
An adult dog don't cling to a lady.
I may be told by someone"You are still child."

Man can't avoid trouble. Nietzsche and I.

My writing often depends on Nietzsche.But of course, I don't recommend his way of life to you. His life was an experiment and politely going off the rail as a path of life.
I have had many troubles until now,and they were the things I had imagined at the time of teen age at all. Troubles truly showed many possibilities of man, and I realized some common nuance of unfair and dishonest.  These experiences lead me Nietzsche's books.
 He was sure some scandal against the modern people.He maybe too honest to flatter others. He must couldn't endure dishonest characteristics of modern people.

 For him, Christianity was only a supporter for modernism too.So his criticｓ to Christianity meant a secularization of religions was a typical bad nihilism.
 By the way, There was a famous Nietzsche's translator"Michio Takeyama竹山道雄"in Japan before WW2 and after the war.He was a German literature teacher. and his many students died in war, and He wrote the famous novel"Harp of Burma".It became movies some times.

No news is good news

Now I have no interests with news in the world because I am very busy.By the way,It is good for a workman to hear no news about what he did.If there are news about his workmanship,they are often bad news and he will be condemned for his bad workmanship.
 Please forgive my laziness to writing."No news is good news"

Fear Industry

To take advantage of a weakness is often to bring about a tragic incident. Medical industry is a typical FEAR INDUSTRY.Fear for health is a weakness all people have.
  Why fear industries can make much money? The answer is simple. Because too many people pay money by their threats. The more threat, the more money,that's a fear industry.
  To watch old Japanese movie, "YAKUZAヤクザ（Gangster)"often threat quiet citizens and they escalate their request on the pretext to keep peace. The more quiet citizens are, the more escalation they have. The weakness of citizens is a mind to avoid trouble itself.
After all someone on the side of citizens burst his outrage.and it finally to come blood rain.

An Oversupply Destory The Society

I have no time to follow the medical insurance issue in U.S(Many Japanese show much interests with this too.)I only heard that medical cost is incredibly expensive in U.S because the medical profession is  oversupplied.
An insurance depends on the invisible social reliance.But this oversupply seems to damage fundamental elements of social reliance. Modern society has no way to resolve this problem yet.Economics may be useless.A doctor is too clever to compete with low price each other.An oversupply of profession is essentially exception of market balance.Market can't reduce the amount of the medical profession.An oversupply does more harm than good.

The line's busy.

Once,a telephone operator used to connect lines whenever people called someone.And if the receiver was occupied by the other caller, then the operator would said"The line's busy".Off course.now such a thing is not done.

 "This line is busy"seems difficult to be translated into Japanese. Once Japanese American operators often said from US to Japan in Japanese"Sen ga isogasi( The line works hard at it)"This"busy"means "occupied".It was one of strange Japanese phrases.
(This photo was taken at AT&T office in early70's )

I am very busy now.

I am very busy now. So,my original writing will stop for the time being.
Please,look forward my posting soon later.Thank you for your reading.